|R & B Artist Robin Thicke and wife Paula Patton|
|R & B Singer Heather Headley and husband former NY Jets player Brian Musso|
As I get older I realize finding the right person has a lot less to do with color and far more to do with your heart. I rarely ever hear a black man say they won't date a white woman. Better yet I hear them give me a list of reasons why they would or why they feel like black women are now the obsolete option. I wont go into detail about that for a few reasons.
- That ish is angering
- It's disrespectful
- And...it's neither here nor there, because we are not discussing exclusion we are talking about expanding options.
- I'm not into making generalizations here.
|South Park Co-Creator Matt Stone and his wife Angela|
|Grey's Anatomy star Justin Chambers and wife, Keisha|
So as of today I vow to keep my options open. I will be open to love from whatever tree it's leaves may fall from. Because the honest to God truth is on my wedding day it doesn't matter if the hand I'm holding is ivory and I'm staring into some piercing blue eyes, or he's a caramel brown brother with a beautiful dark brown pair. All that truly matters is the words, "I do". And the fact that he means them as much as I do.